Education  is necessary, but skill is essential. Unfortunately, our education  system per se is such that it hardly helps an individual develop skills.  Much less the skills I think are most important for living life happily  and successfully.  I am talking about two skills in particular - skill  with oneself, and skill with people.    A child is born with some  tendencies which may have a lot to do with his/her parentage. What is  his father's attitude to life, what is that of his mother, and more  importantly how their relationship with each other. While these factors  continue to have their influence on the growth of the child, various  other influences start playing an important role during the growing years.  The teacher, the class mates, friends, relatives, and neighbors - all  influence the child. It is hard to say how much these help in developing  either of the two skills which I have mentioned above - skill with  oneself, and skill with other people.    So wh...